Friday, 18 October 2024

Your choice.......is it?!?

It is easy to talk about 'your choice'....
Is what you do today all your choice,
or is part of it the results of 'programming' in the past.....

I don't believe that we consciously choose to hurt people,
I believe we all want to live in peace,
we like to connect with others
and be there for others.
Be happy for their achievements,
and happy for your own.

How often do we make a choice because of this....
For me that is the only reason to have 'a war'......

I wrote about the Ho' Oponopono
and when using it,
I realised I wasn't really sorry.....
I said the words
only.....
I felt resentment towards the other person.....

When I realised this,
I also realised 
that I had resentment towards myself.......
Accepting this,
resentment changed into compassion
and......
'all of a sudden' I slept a lot better the nights after.....




Your choice/my choice....
If you don't deal with 'inner situations'
it is not your choice you are following,
you are following choices from the past....

Could it be that this is
 why it looks like we are now 
a 'world at war'?
Could it be that it is in our hand to change this....
one person at a time.......?

I am in a energy of letting go
and by this you find 'old stuff'.
20 years ago I made this

It was my wish and when I look at it now,
I realise it manifested already years ago....

This was on the back: 
'Long live Freedom,
Heaven on earth.'

This didn't manifest ...yet.
I am sure it will manifest as well.....

It takes a little bit more time....
a little bit more looking at 'inner situations'...

'In my dreams there is this image
of a beautiful angel.
She dances.
She comes to me in a loving way
with a outstretched hand.
Making sure,
I get the balance back in my life.
Dancing around me,
dancing towards me,
One for always.'

I hope and wish you choose to imagine your life
in the most beautiful way
and deal with your 'inner situations'
so you can make a conscious choice....
Your choice.


 

 

Sunday, 6 October 2024

Letting go of 'the system/s'.......


 With a full blown war in Lebanon,

schools are 'worried' about education......

Just a few years ago with a 'full blown' Covid,

 schools were worried about education as well:

'will the students knowledge be on a certain level?!?'


What is going on......

do we still believe 'education' of the mind, 

programmed from an energy of the past,

is still most important?!?

Do we still believe we have to label kids so they can 'fit in' ?

Do we still believe that is what life is all about?!?


How come there are 'wars'......is it because of 'the mind'

or is it about emotions......anger, resentment, insecurity and....

 hurt and pain from the past.......

How many 'mirrors' do we need?!?

How many mirrors do I need.......


October 9th Jupiter will go retrograde......time to heal inside.....

How do you communicate with yourself.....

Is it in a nice, compassionate and impowering way

or in shame/blame and accusing way.....

Did people/the system let you believe something that wasn't true?

Did you- because of education-

forget who you really are:

Unique, authentic and 'powerful beyond measure? 

If you forgot.....start to remember....

make it your new mantra.


Not only for you, 

but also because you realise 

that by being YOU, 

you will be leading by example.

Be a roll model for all the people who need 

to see and experience

your unique quality.

You will not feel superior or inferior,

not feel threated by others....

You will Know that the other has also an unique quality

and.....

you will start listening, communicating and connecting

and together 'Be the change you choose to see in this world'


On Oct 12, 

Pluto will go forward again,

so we can use the power we gained inside of us.

Power, instead of powering over or manipulating.....

Nov 21,

 Pluto will leave Capricorn.

The systems that were outdated and needed to transform,

starting from 2008 are supposed to be transformed.....

Did they?


Capricorn likes to 'keep the old' and it can 'protest'.....

war......

The school system should be a system

to help children to be themselves.

Needs to help them to develop in the special human beings 

they already are inside.

They do that in a structure that is nurturing, loving

and is challenging their curiosity.

Do we have schools like this

and.....are governments -also a Capricorn system-

made changes so that children can excel/shine?

Most important: do they make sure they feel save and secure,

emotional safe and secure...


There is not a 'war' going on in Holland,

only in the school system there is....

For some there is no place.....they can not 'deal'

with certain children.....


The  school is for me 'an extension' of  parents...

an other system.....

How is that system working.....

are there still 'outdated programs' ?


We were in the war in Saudi

and I was teaching then.

Our kids were emotional 'ok'.

We talked about it, made a safe space

because we made sure we were in an emotional safe place.

Was the education at that moment important?

No........

I Knew and still believe,

that everything that is in a child 

will come out

if you give it an emotional safe environment.

I also know that you need to be in balance

as a parent to do that.....

Before this war, 

I was already in 'another war' -my cancer-

so it helped me to deal with this war....


Is school important?

Yes it is, only.....

in a time of  war/epidemic

it is not.......

Life is showing/mirroring that something else is important:

to Be there for each other,

to Feel......to Let go and.....be grateful.

You are in 'a school' that teaches you how to deal with life:

the emotional challenges,

how to be patient, to be brave,

how to deal with fear, to develop to be courageous,

to grow and heal and be grateful in between turmoil.


How is it after the Covid?

Is the biggest challenge the level of education

or is the biggest challenge the emotional state of children/teenagers....?

What did/do we learn or ....

do we need more challenges to learn and heal....


How is it in your 'family system'....

Do you use this time to heal and stop the karma

or......do you develop more......


More because you follow an 'outdated system'......

It can be because you are in an actually war,

it can also be because you are in a relational war....

How do people treat you in your family

and how do you treat them. 

Are they/or you still following 'old outdated traditions'

that 'forget' emotions......


How is it with your work?

Do you have a 'new leader' or an 'old boss'......

Do you live to work, or work to live......

and.....are you happy with it

or are you living an 'outdated family system'....


I know a powerful new leader who got fired 

because of 'this old system'......

and people who are almost in a burn out because of this old system.....

They will leaders by example the coming time.....



What do you choose?

A system can give you security and that is good,

only....is it a real security or a false one......

If it is a  security based on fear, 

then you know.....it is a false one.....


Take time to look inside.

Choose to be courageous

be patient, 

be compassionate,

take one step at a time.....


BE the one you choose to be...

Be the light,

Be unconditional love.

Be YOU,

there is no one else

and that is good.

Be YOU

and Know

you don't have to do it alone.

There are more people like you:

unique, courageous and compassionate.

We can start building a new system.

A system that looks at people first.



Tuesday, 1 October 2024

Ho 'Oponopono


 This Hawaiian prayer/healing method

is using the energy of 'we are all One'.

The other is mirroring us 

what we cannot see in ourselves ....yet.


By saying these sentences you acknowledge this.

It is very powerful and...

easy to do ....and not to do.....


Tomorrow there is a Solar eclipse.

The theme: 

-war and peace

-yourself and yourself in partnerships.


The Sun and the Moon in Libra....

a new moon, a new start....

Can we be self respected, independent

and solve conflicts

or do we choose to have 

'peace on the outside and war inside'....


This eclipse is in a tension energy with Mars,

a Mars that wants to defend the people 

who can not stand up for themselves,

a Mars that can forget 

that it has to take care of her/himself first.....


How many of you feel helpless at the moment...

and also anger and passion - Venus is in Scorpio-

What can you do?!?


There is a real war going on,

not only in the Ukraine,

but also in Lebanon.......

If you feel frustrated, powerless, angry 

you can choose to sent Reiki 

or do the Ho 'Oponopono....


By doing the Ho' Oponopono 

you are healing the part in you 

that the outside world is mirroring you....


Can you be yourself?

Can you be yourself in a relationship?

Did you make concessions?

Perhaps to many concessions, 

then this eclipse will 'help' you....

Most  likely you felt it the last months

and will feel it the coming months......

-an eclipse is not only working when it is exact....-


You can use the Ho 'oponopono in relationships as well...

Where in your life 

are you still 'afraid' to say what YOU feel....

Where in your life 

do you make compromises 

to have an harmonious life on the outside

and 'war' inside....


Five planets are retrograde and in a few weeks,

there will be seven: 

time to look inside......

time to re-visit, re-adjust, re-start.


Will we see diplomatic talks to stop the wars?

I hope so.

I am sure that in many relationships

this theme will come up as well:

is there a good balance in being yourself

and respecting the other.....


Knowing that sometimes 

you have to make concessions 

for the bigger goal.

Only......it always should be in balance,

meaning: good for the both of you.