Sunday 17 December 2023

Our deepest fear....part 3

 Neptune went direct again,

so ....'the fog' is clearing ;-)

Mercurius went retrograde so we can go inside

and clear misunderstandings about our selves and/or others.

Christmas time is a time of light,

a time to connect with family and friends.

Also a time when shadows come up.

How are we going to deal with this?

Are we afraid to hurt other peoples feeling

and by that hurting ourselves,


do we trust and feel love....

Do we expect the best?

Do we Know that the other person 

never wants to hurt our feeling on purpose....

Do we Know we never want to hurt 

the other person on purpose 

and....can we deal with their response....

Do we understand that the response from the other

doesn't say anything about us....

Do we Know that a response says something about that other person....

Do we also understand that our response

also says something about us.....

not about the other....

If we feel hurt,

how do we react:

fight or flight

or are we deciding to deal with this hurt.

Realise that not everyone is in the same place,

there is no good or bad,

everyone has it own path to go.

You are responsible for your own path....

al least if your goal is love an peace :-)

If you look back on 2023

-I still do it from the 5 pillars: you can re-read

the blogs about this from last years-

were do you see and feel 

you acted from your deepest fear....

The fear to 'be powerful beyond measure'

Is it in your mind, about your body,

in your relationships, society

-remember: money=love=power-

Can you look back and be grateful,

grateful and accept that it was as it was.....

How about 2024?

What do you expect/wish for at the end of that year,

what did you do to make 2024 the best year ever!

What could be your first step....little step:

Are you going to end every day with a sentence:

I am grateful for....

Are you going to change a routine: 

-use smaller plates

-smile to the person at the supermarket

-take the stairs at work

-tapping on the anger point -lower ribs/liver-

 after feeling anger.

-put '20 euro's' a side every month on a special account.

-make an appointment to see a friend/relative you

 'don't have time to visit'.....start with one...

-smile to yourself in the mirror in the morning

 and wish him/her a wonderful day....

KNOW live knows best.....

it is not always going as you expected,


it goes as it should be....

If your energy changes,

your live changes.

You attract something/someone else.

The only way to attract what you like

-as I see it-

is if you are open to look inside,

open to deal with old patterns, old emotions.


if you are not doing it,

live will give you lot's of opportunity's 

so you HAVE to look at it.

Not to punish, 

but to help....

your soul knows best...

It helps you to remember

that you are powerful....

decide to let go of the fear...

Wishing you all an amazing 2024.

A world of love,

good health, gratefulness

great people around you


Peace in your soul,

your body, mind, relationships 

and in the world.

Monday 4 December 2023

Our deepest fear......part 2

 We are already at the last month of this year.....

For the world and for a lot of people a very challenging year.

We are at the end of a cycle: 

the old society doesn't work anymore,

and it seems 

we are not totally ready for a new one.

Do we still think we need walls,

or do we more and more realise

that we need boundaries.

Can we have an inclusive society

or do we believe it has to stay exclusive....

Are we still afraid and need of control

or can we day by day trust a little more

and relax......

There are still old wounds touched

and by the reactions: they need some more healing....

People are not happy

and you see from elections in the world 

that there is a lot of blaming.

Voters not always choose what they want,

but choose 'against'.....

not even realising what the consequences are....

5 years ago I wrote this about peace:

If we want to find peace on earth,
we first have to find it in our selves:
how is it in your body
-do you judge it? Is it to big, to small,
not enough muscle or can you appreciate it?-
how in your mind?
-do you talk nice to you or do you still judge yourself you hear yourself or is it still a subconscious habit.-
how is is it in your relationships?
-do you set boundaries or do still want to please.....
even if it doesn't feel good. Do you love yourself or
is there not yet peace with yourself....-
how is it in society?
-are you seeing it as a mirror or are you 'fighting against'.
Do you love what you do, do you feel you can contribute to it
or do you feel you are stuck.....go back to your mind: there is probably still no peace....-
how is it moneywise?
-do you feel you don't get enough, that you can not do what your really want? Do you feel that 'it is not fair'?.....also go back to your mind......a part wants to be in peace-
The only way we will find a world that is in peace,
is if we deal with the 'wars' inside us....
Do you have the courage to look inside and deal
with yourself first?

Are you open to 'break through' your own walls
and replace them by boundaries?

Are you open to believe that we all are One,
and we are each other mirrors?

Are you open to hear beyond what is being said?
Are you open to feel, have compassion,
love yourself and be at peace?

I have to be honest:
for me this can be challenging.
I have periods that this goes easy
and then, 'all of a sudden'
I feel restless....

I can react in a way, that surprises me,
an 'old way'......

Deep down this is the feeling:
am I also ok 'just as being me'.....
or do I have to DO 'things' for others....

I realise that this picture is even
stimulating this feeling
instead of letting it go.....

So let's change it:
accept the storm,
accept the fear
love will win in the end
and we will be at peace.

I started with investing time to look at the 5 pillars again
to look back at 2023.
We have to invest time,
sit still and open to investigate our feeling,
deal with our wounds
instead of walking away from them.

Where are you walking away from?
Which pillar is your weakest link?
Do you realise that if you deal with your weakest link,
you will automatically improve the other pillars,
so they become even stronger....?

Mercury will go retrograde,
and we are already in it's shadow:
use the time to go within.

Expect misunderstandings
so you can heal a misunderstanding inside of you.
Take your time and be patient
if traffic is slow or computers don't work.
Remember love, when people forgot appointments
or are late.
Listen to your inner voice:
it is loving, compassionate and patient.....