Can they be authentic, be who they are?
Parents/adults are there
to help them cope with the world around them.
At a certain point,
they know they need adults......
Can they stay confident, be themselves
or
do they have to find coping mechanisms
to survive....hiding their confidence on the way......
Mercurius is going direct on April 7th
and on April 12 Venus will go direct as well.
After months
of this retrograde energy
we are in an energy of going forward.
On April 17 Mars will go into Leo,
so: what do YOU choose?
Did you let go of old idea's old patterns?
Did you make space for new?
It is spring:
do you need some spring cleaning in your house?
Could you choose YOUR time or.....
did your cellphone choose yours?
It is good to look at your energy.
There are states of energy:
-did you impress.....yourself or others
-did you express or suppress..... were you afraid of conflict
-djd you feel oppressed: afraid that someone opposes your effort
-did you feel repressed: feeling you couldn't do what you wanted to do.
Or.....did you feel depressed:
sad for to long......
feeling you are not in charge.....
We were visiting our grandchildren.
I was playing and singing when they were in the hammock.
'Again'......
'Again'......
'Again'......and this went on and on and I kept singing......
Later I read a book for them, and there it was the same:
'Again'......
'Again'.......
'Again'.....
'Again'.......
and this went on and on
and at one time,
she took over.
Making up stories using only one page,
while I was reading another book to her brother.
The last evening we were there,
they were in the bath.
She started singing and....she knew the song by heart.
Later on she was singing in the bed
and when I started to sing with her,
she said: 'No, I like to do it alone'......
For me
this is what working with your own inner child looks like:
Repeating, repeating, repeating.....
Your inner child
had to deal with lot's of challenging situations
-parents, society, school, friends, moves-
and had to 'survive'.
How confident is that part in you?
Does it still knows that he/she is unique,
or....is it still in hiding?
It needs YOU, the adult,
to remember this again.....
again and again.....
This takes time.....
As much time as needed.
So repeat, read, sing,
do whatever is needed.
Every time you judge yourself,
you doubt yourself,
feel you are less then someone else:
repeat.....
again, again and again....
No one should dim your light anymore,
You are born to shine!
You are needed in this world
You are unique, powerful and love.
Could it be that we 'believe' it is a difficult exam,
because we forgot we only have to do our own?
Could it be that if we remember we have all that is needed
inside of us and......
also know we attracted the right people around us to help us,
we can start enjoying?
Could it be that we should start with our children?
Could it be that we have to stand up for children,
stand up for situations that shouldn't be for children....
And......if we can not change the situation
realise we can help them go through it.
KNowing that if we do that,
we also help healing our inner child.
If you look around,
listen to the media,
you can start feeling overwhelmed.
What is going on?!?
Why are people acting like they do?!?
You can go into a feeling of fear and freeze
or....
you can remember we are in a process of inner healing,
personal healing.
Choose to look around and make changes there.
Clean one cupboard a day/a week.
Put your phone away for half/one hour a day.
Start walking, even if it is around the house.
Choose to change words: instead of I can not do it, 'it is challenging'
Sit in the sun and ask the sun to help you to let go.
Talk to a loved one, or.....someone in the street.
Connect....what do you/I love to do?
Play, read, sing
and
Repeat, repeat and repeat.....
Take your time,
be patient
and enjoy the ride.
