You are another me....

 

We are in 'eclipse season'.

Eclipses are about relationships

and the most important one 

is the relationship with yourself.

What do you need to let go,

so you can be who you are already deep down:

Love and Peace.

We are 'all One'

so everyone you meet is 'another you'.....

It means that if you blame or judge someone,

you really blame and judge yourself.

How come we forgot?

How come we forgot we are all Love?

The lack of love shows in fear....

Do we choose to go through our fear

or....don't we even realise we are afraid.....

We first have to recognize it.

For me this is an ongoing practice,

it comes to me in subtle ways.

I have to be alert and.....

be disciplined......

-at least....if I choose to let go and heal....-

So I choose to recognize my emotion

and....deal with them.

 

I re-read a book of Marianne Williamson: 'Tears of Triumph'

'Healing is a kind of detox, 

everything that needs to leave our system,

first has to come up and then cut.'

Forgiveness is the key.....

remembering that we are all One,

the other is an other you.

So what does this mean for the world we live in....

 

Did we have unhealed parents?

Do we still listen to that part

and are 'unhealed parents' ourselves

or do we choose to deal with it,

so the next generation 

doesn't have to deal with this anymore.

Did/do we do the 'detox'?

Know that our parents did the best they could. 

Do we choose to let 'everything',

 that wasn't unconditionally love but fear,

go....

Can we forgive, let go of the guild and blame

and move forward

or.....

do we need some more mirrors from the outside world.

What are you attracting?

Can you be grateful for the challenging mirrors, Knowing

they are there to help you heal

or....

does your 'wound' give you some benefits

and is dealing with this wound to scary......

that blaming others and find excuses 

is sometimes still the choice you make.....

What if you Knew that the 'only thing'

 your soul wants

is to help you heal,

to help others heal.

To go back to who you really are:

Love and peace,

born to live in abundance.

What if you Knew you don't have to do it all by yourself,

because all the others around you are on the same path:

Love and peace,

living in abundance.

Could you choose to trust,

to be patient

and ask for help if needed

and give help when needed.

Not because you 'get' something from it,

no, just because you Know

that everything you do for others 

is giving to yourself:

We are all One.

Uranus: do you choose to be free or....do you need 'help'.....

 

My last post was about Saturn,

and I hope you take the time,

- till Saturn goes direct again on Nov. 27-

to deal with wrong assumptions,

fears that are not yours

and take the little steps that are needed

to bring you 

were you choose to go to.

Take the time to surrender, integrate

and set good boundaries

so when Saturn will go back in to Aries

you can follow your inner authority,

your true individual purpose within society/world.

You will being helped by Uranus,

the planet that 'helps' you being YOU, unique and free.

I write 'help' because sometimes we don't like the way 

we are being helped.....

Uranus can be very unpredictable....

Sometimes we like to hold on to situations/people/patterns

even though it is not what our soul wants....

How do you communicate with yourself?

What did happen in the last two months?

Was there 'stress', restlessness, sudden changes,

did you 'break' something, was there a challenge with 'accidents'?

Uranus and Saturn will help you

to be AND free to be yourself 

AND do this in a responsible way.

Between Nov. 7 and March 25 2026 Uranus will go back in Taurus.

Ending up the cycle that started in 2018.

What happened in your life?

Were there sudden changes or did you make changes yourself?

We moved back to Holland.....

we could have stayed, only choose not to.

It was not good for Jaap so he choose for himself

and I.......

realised very quickly that it was good for me too....

We had to find a way to be together AND be ourselves....

It was a time of renovations,

sudden trips to help out and enjoy.

Also the suicide of my brother....

 

Taurus: 

feeling safe, secure, holding on to patterns....

Uranus 'showed' some old patterns that were not good 

for me anymore

- I even needed a melanoma to remind me:

why did I hide my anger?!?-

We traveled a lot, enjoyed sauna days,

and found likeminded people 

in places we never could have imaged.

That is my wish for you all....

Let go of guild an shame and be responsible,

be patient AND....

choose to enjoy life, 

live NOW.

The coming time will be a time to choose.

How do you want to live your life?

Look at the world around you....

What do you attract?

You only can attract the same energy as you are in.

Change your energy, 

so you can attract something different.

Realise that sometimes we believe 

we have to hold on to certain patterns,

even if they are not the best for you.

Where do they come from and.....

how come you are holding on to them?!?

With Taurus you can think about

-feeling safe and secure as a child

-being loved unconditional, not unconditional tolerance.....

I still have an old pattern that I find hard to let go.....

When I went to London often to 'help out',

it realise it also was an excuse.....

I helped out AND did what I loved to do,

exploring, enjoying the city.

How come I can not do this when I 

'don't have to help'?!?

Now I don't have to go to London to help out,

I go to The Hague

only....it is not to helping out

it is more to enjoy 

and I know I made a big step,

only......

Can I choose to go and do the things that make me extra happy,

'just' because I like it?!?

Or....is there a part of me that believe I 'should' be there for others,

I have to 'deserve' it.....

I KNow it is an old pattern,

and I also Know I made big steps

only....I am not there yet.

I also know I have some time left to deal with it.

Uranus and Saturn will help me to look inside

and deal with some more of these old pattern,

so I can start 'new' next spring :-)

Nobody needs to be fixed.....

they can do it themselves.

Only.....

we all can be there for each other

in our own unique way.

Have compassion, guide,

respect and be patient,

just BE there for each other on our path.

So choose not to judge, 

instead of reacting, responding.

Take time to be nice to you,

to be patient and trust.

Trust that everything that comes your way,

comes because you need it

AND

you have the power to deal with!

to 'fix' his or her own life.....

it is 'just' a choice.

Ending the cycle of Saturn and starting a new one.

 

The coming half year Saturn,

the planet of determination, responsibility, patience

will be retrograde.

We get opportunity's to re-visit, re-evaluate

our goals, structures, responsibility's and wisdom.

Saturn is the planet of Karma.

Karma meaning that you will see and experience

the consequences of your deeds,

so it has nothing to do with guilt and shame.....

Guilt and shame is an emotion that blocks you

and Saturn 'just' wants you to take responsibility

so you can grow and build something stable.

There is no short cut......

The cycle of Saturn is 28/29 years

and Aries is the beginning of a cycle.

From April 1996 till March 1999 this cycle started.

What did you start then?

Did something in your life happen so you

had to let go and do something new?

Where in your life did this happen?

Mental, work/society, physical, relational, 

or financial? 

Or was it a combination of this?

Now you are at an end of this cycle

and at the beginning of a new one.

The last months you got 'signs' of this new energy

only......most likely....

you need some time to end the last one,

deal with some lose ends....

From February 2026 Saturn will stay in Aries.

If you feel you are a victim:

choose to let go and remember your courage....

Just take one step at a time.

If you feel you 'deserve' the life you have in your mind:

look back and see if you did the work that was needed.

If not: do it now.

If you feel you did the work only you need to see the results NOW:

could it be that you need to be more patient

and/or choose to let go of control.....and trust more....

Or could it be that you are living a life that is not yours,

but a life you think society/parents expect from you.....

What if you choose to do what YOU want to do?

For me this last cycle started

with moving back to Holland,

changing a carrier,

loosing both of my parents in a short time

and my husband working abroad.

A big change...

What did you start and....

how did you get tested/evaluated?

Testing/evaluated meaning: 

did you do what 'your soul'

wanted you to do?

-Every 7 year you get a test/evaluation,

so after 7/14/21 and now after 28 years-

A challenging quote....and still .....so true...

If you really want something you will find a way...

you WILL do what is needed.

The biggest challenge -as I see it-

our emotional past....

Can we deal with it.

Do we have the right people around us.

Do we attract the right people

or.....

Are we so wounded and want to be in control,

that we forgot our own potential,

our own power.....

Pure love is our power....

Look at little children,

how open an honest they are.....

Can we see them as mirrors and follow them

or......

do we think we now better.......

Can we protect and guide them,

can we be patient and take the time

so they can BE who they Are.

They learn by doing and 'falling' is part of it.

It is part of life.

Determination to learn to walk, to speak, to sing,

to communicate.

Being patient and  be frustrated and...

still go on

because they Know and Feel that they are

protected, respected and loved,

that is 'the job' of parents/society.

So....what are we doing in society

and as parents....

With war, hoovering parenting,

and reacting and judging on social media.

Do we realise that we are in a changing world,

a new world

a world of respect for each other.

Being authentic AND part of a community.

Are we ready for the next cycle of Saturn?

Can we make a new start?

I hope so and......

I trust I will do what is needed,

when the life I am waiting for is coming.

So I can live the life

together will all the people I love.