Friday, 16 January 2026

Signs, part 2

 

Can you be different

and feel part of society?

Do you need a label

or can you 'just be you'?


I am not a fan of labels.

For me labels show that you belong to a group

that doesn't feel seen.

This label gives you 'permission'

to be different ....as if you need this:

you don't NEED permission....

YOU are exactly how you should be.


Does it mean you can behave in a way

that hurt other people?

No......

Every person should 

AND be respected as he or she is

AND respect others as well...

This takes practice, determination,

respect, patience and compassion.


If you look around you,

I am sure you don't see always the respect,

the determination, patience or compassion.

I am sure when you look back in history

you can not understand that we still repeat...

repait while we were 'determent' that we

would never do this..... 

War in the world, 'war' in relationships,

'war' in our body's, 'war' in our minds....


What do you choose?

Fear or love.

If you choose fear, 

you don't address what is important for you

not in relationships, family or society.


If you choose fear,

your mind will stay immature,

not believing that you are love and loved.

If you choose fear,

society will dictate your moves

and you can not live the life you like to live.

Choose Love....


Be aware, 

choose to be grateful for the signs

and....instead of feeling a victim,

Know that deep down you have the power!

These signs are there to help you grow,

to help you go from fear to love.


Is it always easy to do?

No....it is not.....only

I believe is worse if you don't do it.....


Do we have enough patience,

are we determent enough,

or.....

do we want a 'short cut'......


Do we take responsibility for our own life

or do we want others to do this for us.....

I like the 5 pillars: it shows you that 

you are as strong as your weakest pillar.


You can be very good and successful in your job,

only....

if your body is not as you want it to be,

you should choose to focus on that body more....


You can have a wonderful relationship,

only.....if your mind is full of worry,

you should choose to focus on your mind....


You can have more than enough money,

only if you are all by yourself and lonely,

you could choose to focus on your relationships.....



Look for the signs that show that you are courageous.

Starting to read a few pages of a book every day....

Starting to have a 'detox': 

- no social media after 20.00

- setting boundaries to people that cost energy

- stop working at a certain time

Start a new behaviour:

-start on time every day

-start a new hobby

-walk instead of using a car 1 day a week.

-smile to the person in the store.

AND.....

after a few weeks: 

look again at the signs....


Do you get different ones?

Do you sleep better?

Did you meet different people?

Did something change at work, your environment?

Do you feel more relaxed.....loved?


At the end of this month Neptune will leave Pisces

and go into Aries:

choose to leave your victim ship, illusions

and do what is needed to live the life you choose.

Saturn will meet Neptune next month,

so you get the help that is needed 

to manifest what you choose.

Make sure it is YOUR choice,

not something 'society/other people' let you believe

you should choose......

YOU are important,

YOU are unique,

YOU are needed.


Enjoy and choose love...

Be determent, be patient,



one day at a time...

Be like a reindeer....

Friday, 2 January 2026

Signs....

 A new year has begun.

I hope you all started 2026 in a good way. 


After a year were we got a prelude of

what will be the energy the coming years,

we will stay in this energy after April.

For now we still have some 'old energy' to clear.


In Feb. Neptune and Saturn will stay in Aries

and in April Uranus will stay in Gemini.

Till then we most likely get some 'signs',

signs that will help us to change what needs to be changed,

so we can be the best version of our selves.

Signs, synchronicity:

did you recognize them last year?

Did they help you to change?

How did you look at the signs: 

good/bad or as a 'present'?


If you look at the 5 pillars

-mind, body, relationship, society, finance-

and look at their signs it can be very helpful.


For me my melanoma was a sign,

it helped to to set boundaries,

helped me to let go of some old fears,

and take time for me.


So even if it was challenging for my 'body',

it helped my 'mind'.

By letting go of old patterns

 I became more honest and open,

so it helped my 'relationships'.

And by that the 'society' pillar: for some 

it must have been challenging

to experience that 'I changed'

It helped my body as well: 

I relaxed more and took more time for 'me'


Most likely, deep down,

I had some issues I wasn't ready to deal with

only.....

'my soul' knew I had to let it go

and I needed 'help'.


Neptune/Saturn from Pisces into Aries:

letting go of being a victim,

and.....start new...

Taking action, being patient and follow your dream.


For me 'the wars' in the world

are challenging....I am sure you feel the same....

I see 'leaders' who power over instead of leading by inner power.

Instead of looking at all the people involved,

wanting the best,

they 'need' to be seen.....showing how insecure they are...

'ego talking'....

I also see leaders who are afraid to speak up 'because'

then it will get worse.......

Instead of real communication, respect,

it is a game of manipulation....

People are suffering, genocide,

destroying buildings......

Neptune/Saturn in Pisces......dishonesty, blaming, addiction...


How am I dealing with this,

what kind of emotions are touched.

A change to see it as a sign,

to look inside: were am I not using my power,

were am I manipulating.....


With Neptune/Saturn in Aries,

we are asked to let go of the feeling of being a victim.

We have the power to change....step by step.

Letting go of 'instant gratification' and understand the power of

determination and patience

while keeping our goal in mind....


For me the main goal is: 

a world in peace

a world were there is respect for each other

a world were we realise 'we are all One'.



How about social media,

are we addicted?

Are we as society doing what is needed

to protect young people/young adults?

Do we choose instant gratification 

or do we choose -now we know better-

to change the 'rules'......

'Use it or lose it'.......our muscles if we don't move/exercise

and our brain....if we don't read, study and/or being curious....

As someone said:

'Our brain needs 'only a banana' to function

and A1needs the energy of 'a city'....'


With Uranus going into Gemini:

will we find a new way to socialize,

use electricity in a new way?

Do we make choices from fear

or from love?

Do we realise we are still human beings

who need to connect......face to face....


How is it with our inner child....

How do you talk to it?

Do you protect it, help to heal?

Does it know that it is ok?

Does it know he/she is good, just the way it is.

Do you give it the love it needs...

Are you listening to the signs it gives you?


Signs.

Could it be that from this year their will be a breakthrough

with viruses?

Could it be that this year speak their voice 

and there will be demonstration so there will be change

or....will there be demonstration because of anger and fear....

How ready are we?


We are not victims,

we are 'powerful beyond measure'

And....

if you don't feel like that,

start....

feeling it step by step....

With this new energy you can!

No shortcuts anymore.


Let this energy help you to go for your dream:

-a healthy lifestyle

-doing a study so you can follow your dream 

-start new with compassion...one step at a time.


Your mind is more powerful then a computer

and......live  YOUR life, 

'Be the change you want to see in this world' 

You are unique,

let others  be unique as well.

YOU are needed because no one else 

can give what YOU have to give in this world....