Guild and Shame

 

I hope you have compassion with yourself

while healing your past.

I hope you can see the results of your healing:

being more at peace,

less judging,

enjoying what is.

I believe we never get more than we can deal with

and if you feel you do,

-most of the time-

 it is because you forgot how powerful you are.

If no one reminded you: I will do this today:

You ARE powerful beyond measure.

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The last months of the year started.....

Time to look back.

How was this year,

do you feel you want or need something to do?

Is it in relationships, your work, your body or

is it your mind?

Autumn is the season of letting go,

of endings and also of harvesting.

Nothing is waisted:

the leaves that fall are composting the soil for next year

and the fruits and grains are making sure 

we nurture ourselves.

Nothing is waisted.......

It is as with emotions, our 'wounds'.

Those wounds

- when looked at and dealt with-

become our compassion,

our understanding, patience

and our intuition.

We let go of judging.

We understand that people need time

-just as we did..-

and even though these wounds keep a scar

-a scar that can still hurt sometime-

it transforms into a 'talent'

When you look at little kids 

you see this......

Sometimes they don't feel understood

and they 'act out'.....

If you respond to the anger with understanding,

often they start crying.....

cleaning out the pain of not being understood....

I also see adults reacting......

most likely because their anger -old anger- is touched....

Shame is born....

Guild means: 

I did something wrong and I can/have to change it.

Shame: I am wrong......

This is not right.....

You were not wrong, 

you take/took responsibility for something 

that is/was not yours to take.

Most likely from an adult who couldn't deal with their own pain.

Shame is a feeling that only belongs to a

scammer, manipulator and perpetrator....

If I look at the media,

at politician and world leaders

I hear a lot of wounded parts.

I see mirrors.

If I look around me,

I also see mirrors.

Looking at these mirrors and taking action

works.....

I see that it works in my own life.

The 'world' is showing me and....

gave me different mirrors :-)

The second half of September gave

me so much joy and love.

It showed me that my energy has changed

in a way that I couldn't have imagined.

I also Know that I will get more mirrors

if I need to heal more or deeper and....

that is ok:

Like nature, 

life is meant to move on,

grow......

if not, 

it will die.....transform 

and also move on.....

Not only woman ;-)....

all human beings.

We 

'Can Be the change we like to see in the world',

just 

'Imagine'....