Saturday, 8 November 2025

-No-vember to say -Yes- to yourself.

 

What DO you 'want' and is not in your life yet?

Do you attract nice, loving, honest and compassionate people?

Do you attract work that is your passion?

Do you look in the mirror and love what you see?

Do you do the things you love to do 

because there is enough money to do it?

Do you believe you deserve it, 

deserve everything you love to have?


If that is not the case,

then most likely you say 'yes' to things

you shouldn't say yes to anymore......


Do you talk in a loving and compassionate we with yourself

or......

is it still/sometimes talking in a judging way:

blaming and commanding.....

without patience and complimenting yourself

for all the things you already did....


With Mercury going retrograde and Uranus back into Taurus:

choose to say 'no'.......so there is room for 'yes'.

KNOW you deserve it,

you ARE Love and Peace.


I am reading the book 'addicted to anxiety' from Owen O'Kane.

A good book.

A book that talks about 'our inner child'...

how our anxiety starts there, 

even if most of us do not realise this yet.

I said  in one of my blogs,

that I felt 'weird' not feeling guilty anymore.....

as if I 'had to'......

Letting go of old patterns will give you peace and.....

it is new....

'Am I allowed to feel like this?!?'

'Am I allowed to let this anxiety go'

Once.....it kept you safe....

at least that is what you believed....


A child wants to feel accepted, to feel heard,

and will do everything so it will feel accepted,

to get attention.

How addicted are you?

Are you open to investigate this?


Are you relaxed at the moment?

Are all your muscles relaxed 

or....do you realise

now, when you read this 

that some parts are tense.....

Can you let it go and.....how does this feel.......


Are there people in your life were you feel

you 'have to' go to/give attention to 

only.....

it is because of guilt.

It is because you believe 

that this is 'what society'  believes you should?

To be clear: I don't talk about people were you

feel very emotional about......these people are mirrors.

It is good to deal with these mirrors first before saying 'no'

to them.....

Why?

Because other people will come on your path with the same 

challenge for you.....

just 'to help' you to accept, let go and heal 

this wound inside of you.

Those 'challenging people' are 'angels in disguise' ;-)

 

If you are not happy with the work you are in now:

is it because you believe you 'have to' stay there,

because someone/society told you you should?

Or do you believe you are not in a position to

make changes?

It also could be that you don't believe 

you have the brain, patience

and/or determination to do something new?

Choose to say 'no' to this part.....if you really want it,

you will find a way....


Love=power=money.

Energy.....

If you love what you do, you use your inner power and you will attract money.

Do you love what you do?


'We are getting dumber because using the mobile phone/social media'

Research shows this......

Social media is made to make us addicted.....

Instead of reading a book, taking a walk, have a meaningful conversation,

we stay in a bubble.....

Instead of taking responsibility for our life,

we let others choose what we have to think 

or how we have to live.


Can you choose consciously?

 I made a decision, years ago, only to work in my practice.

I did this because I realised I was always 'on' and.......

it was a way to not having to look and deal with myself....

My phone stays downstairs......

and in the evening I put it somewhere else.

-to be honest: when I hear the WhatsApp, I go and check.....

contact with my kids ;-)-


Where do you choose to say 'no' to this No-vember,

so you can say 'Yes' to yourself?



My husband 'doesn't like' musical,

at least....that is what he says and I follow' this....

Till last week.

I found a nice one and asked him

to go together:

'Great, just book it!'

AND.....a 'Yes' is born :-)










Tuesday, 4 November 2025

Choose to stay in the eye of the storm: Uranus back into Taurus.

 Tomorrow there is a Full Moon.

A full Moon in Taurus and a 'super moon'.

A super Moon because it is close to the earth.

For me also a 'super moon' 

because it will highlight deep emotions

and the feeling of security and safety.....

It is the start of a of month

were the energy will help us get more safety,

to get the rewards we like, 

the life we imagined....


The 'only' challenge: old outdated emotions.

If they come up....

Know you have the power inside to deal with them!


Last month Neptune went back into to Pisces

till the end of Jan. 

and this month 

Uranus will go back into Taurus.

Time we get so we can deal with some 'old stuff'

we 'forgot',

so we can start 2026 with new habits, new patterns.


No more blaming or being a victim,

we take responsibility and Know

that what we do as individual

is important for the collective.



How safe and secure do we feel inside?

On Nov. 9th Uranus will move back into Taurus

till April 2026.

It will help us to feel safe and secure,

it will help us to let go of 'stubbornness':

we don't have to hold on to patterns 

that are not helpful.

We can let go of fear and control

and go to love and trust.


With Mercury going retrograde on the same date,

we Know it is about us: 

healing and trusting ourselves.

Healing and trusting ourselves in a new way,

from safety and beauty and trust.


What can you do for yourself to feel more at peace?

What don't you do, because 'others'

-'others' meaning people you love-

would perhaps not approve....would judge you?


A good start would be your self talk ;-)



We all have 'wounded' parts inside of ourselves.

Choose to accept yours and respect others.


I am sure that when you look around you,

you see what happens if you don't:

-How people communicate in elections.....

Israel-Gaza.....

-Mean stream- and social media....


Instead of connecting and understanding

there is judgement, resentment and division.

Instead of building a society for all,

it is 'against' something/someone.....

emotions instead of intuition....


How is it in your family?

Do you see this in your family as well?

Are there old patterns/karma that needs to go?

Is there someone/you

breaking this, 

so new energy can come in?

And:

how do they deal with you

or.....how do you deal with them...?



or.....

are you 'fed up' of fighting and just leave it....


What are we doing with this energy we are in now?

what are you/me doing with this energy we are in now.....?

We are not  victims.....

we are 'powerful beyond measure'.

What if we choose to change the way we deal with this:

instead of using our energy to fight against,

we choose to fight for......

For love, light and peace,

realising we are worth it.

You ARE worth it!


What will we see this month?

What will we see in the media, around us

and....inside of us...


What ever will happen:

be proud of you

and....'keep walking' :-)