-No-vember to say -Yes- to yourself.

 

What DO you 'want' and is not in your life yet?

Do you attract nice, loving, honest and compassionate people?

Do you attract work that is your passion?

Do you look in the mirror and love what you see?

Do you do the things you love to do 

because there is enough money to do it?

Do you believe you deserve it, 

deserve everything you love to have?

If that is not the case,

then most likely you say 'yes' to things

you shouldn't say yes to anymore......

Do you talk in a loving and compassionate we with yourself

or......

is it still/sometimes talking in a judging way:

blaming and commanding.....

without patience and complimenting yourself

for all the things you already did....

With Mercury going retrograde and Uranus back into Taurus:

choose to say 'no'.......so there is room for 'yes'.

KNOW you deserve it,

you ARE Love and Peace.

I am reading the book 'addicted to anxiety' from Owen O'Kane.

A good book.

A book that talks about 'our inner child'...

how our anxiety starts there, 

even if most of us do not realise this yet.

I said  in one of my blogs,

that I felt 'weird' not feeling guilty anymore.....

as if I 'had to'......

Letting go of old patterns will give you peace and.....

it is new....

'Am I allowed to feel like this?!?'

'Am I allowed to let this anxiety go'

Once.....it kept you safe....

at least that is what you believed....

A child wants to feel accepted, to feel heard,

and will do everything so it will feel accepted,

to get attention.

How addicted are you?

Are you open to investigate this?

Are you relaxed at the moment?

Are all your muscles relaxed 

or....do you realise

now, when you read this 

that some parts are tense.....

Can you let it go and.....how does this feel.......

Are there people in your life were you feel

you 'have to' go to/give attention to 

only.....

it is because of guilt.

It is because you believe 

that this is 'what society'  believes you should?

To be clear: I don't talk about people were you

feel very emotional about......these people are mirrors.

It is good to deal with these mirrors first before saying 'no'

to them.....

Why?

Because other people will come on your path with the same 

challenge for you.....

just 'to help' you to accept, let go and heal 

this wound inside of you.

Those 'challenging people' are 'angels in disguise' ;-)

 

If you are not happy with the work you are in now:

is it because you believe you 'have to' stay there,

because someone/society told you you should?

Or do you believe you are not in a position to

make changes?

It also could be that you don't believe 

you have the brain, patience

and/or determination to do something new?

Choose to say 'no' to this part.....if you really want it,

you will find a way....

Love=power=money.

Energy.....

If you love what you do, you use your inner power and you will attract money.

Do you love what you do?

'We are getting dumber because using the mobile phone/social media'

Research shows this......

Social media is made to make us addicted.....

Instead of reading a book, taking a walk, have a meaningful conversation,

we stay in a bubble.....

Instead of taking responsibility for our life,

we let others choose what we have to think 

or how we have to live.

Can you choose consciously?

 I made a decision, years ago, only to work in my practice.

I did this because I realised I was always 'on' and.......

it was a way to not having to look and deal with myself....

My phone stays downstairs......

and in the evening I put it somewhere else.

-to be honest: when I hear the WhatsApp, I go and check.....

contact with my kids ;-)-

Where do you choose to say 'no' to this No-vember,

so you can say 'Yes' to yourself?

My husband 'doesn't like' musical,

at least....that is what he says and I follow' this....

Till last week.

I found a nice one and asked him

to go together:

'Great, just book it!'

AND.....a 'Yes' is born :-)