Monday, 2 December 2024

The gift to heal....

 

You've got one chance, the gift to feel
Love's deepest pain you cannot heal
It shatters every memory that you keep inside
I tell you this because I know
Protect what's dear, don't trade your soul
'Cause there's nothing left around you
There's no place left to go
All you can, all you can
You gotta take this life and live it
All you can, all you can
Never let it go
There's one thing in this life I understand, oh


'You've got one chance....the gift to feel......'

Most of us are brought up '
that only some feelings were ok......
Anger, pain, sadness and insecurity
were feelings to hide......
Happiness, and conforming to 'what society thought was right'
gave you the feeling of belonging,
of 'being al right'.
So instead of feeling
a lot of us learned 'doing'.......
Doing what society wanted us to be......


Most of the time an illness
war or other challenging situations
let us realise that this is important.....
'Dance before the music is over'
'Enjoy your life Now!'

How much do you Trust.....
and......
in what area's of you life 
do you still feel 
you need to be in control......
- 5 Pillars-

Even though I look conscious at my life
and deal with emotions,
I also realise that there are parts in me 
that are not totally free....yet.....



Can you respect the parts in you
that are not in peace....yet?
Can you accept your fear,
your pain, your insecurity,
your anger and.....feel them.....?

Can you deal with them 
without hurting others,
because you realise these are YOUR emotions....
Can you protect what is dear to you,
'don't trade your soul'......
Can you choose 
tobe respectful to the disagreement inside yourself.....


I used the last month to do all kind of the things
I felt 'I had to do' - Saturn-
so.....
I have the time to enjoy December
-Jupiter with the New Moon-
AND 
have time for unexpected events.
It gives me peace inside.

I realise that I have to communicate,
talk about my feelings,
trust my intuition
and.....plan....
.
I also feel and realise
that if I feel emotions,
that those are mine......
I am responsible for them.....

I trust that what I need to heal
and learn will come my way.
I trust that it will be ok.


My biggest challenge,
my greatest mirror,
my biggest joy
were my children/grandchildren this year.

They made me look at another great mirror:
my husband.
Can I be Me, being there for myself,
 AND be together,
 being there for each other

Then there are my 'clients':
Everyone of them is special and in there own way
they mirror me as well.....
They challenge my parts that are healed
AND the parts that needs some more healing.....

I realise, 
I only could/can deal with this,
because I let go of some old thinking patterns,
patterns that had to do with my youth.....

So......
how is it with you?
Could you let go of some 'old thinking patterns',
and heal the relationship with yourself
and the people around you?



Choose to be happy today....

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