Peace from broken pieces........

 Last week, this book 'talked' to me from my bookcase.

It is a book I read years ago and when I took it out,

I decided to re-read it.

A great book and.....confrontational:

you can be successful in the outside world

but.....not happy.

You can know so many 'tools to heal',

but.....can you use them for yourself as well

and...

are you prepared to use them....

are you open for suggestions...

In the years I am working as a therapist/coach

I had and have a lot of clients.

I taught a lot of people different tools

to help themselves and....

some used them, some didn't.....

Not always because they didn't want to,

but they were not ready ....yet....

If we feel there is 'an enemy' outside

most likely it mirrors 'broken pieces' inside ourselves...

How many of the broken pieces we have inside,

are 'society pieces' and not only 'family pieces'.....

Can we grow in our own pace

or do we still believe we have to conform:

have to be 

what others want us to be....

Or......

do we want others to be

who we want them to be....

Can we accept and 

respect each other....

I watched a documentary that I didn't want to watch at first....

'I killed someone.....' was the title.

When I started watching it,

 I realised it was about good people

who 'snapped'......

people with 'broken pieces' who didn't realise it

and went on attracting the same situations 

till it was no longer possible...

They hadn't formed healthy boundaries,

didn't realise what freedom was 

and thought 'killing' would give them 'freedom'......

They didn't trust family/friends/society

enough to help them to find freedom....

they thought they had to do it themselves,

because 'no one saw there pain'.....

They got their freedom from the bad situation,

only they ended up in jail.....

They ended up in jail, 8- 10 years......

Time without their children,

time to heal their own  broken pieces,

time to take responsibility and......change....

get their freedom again...

This is also Saturn/Uranus.

Do we need 'prison' to deal with our broken pieces,

or do we take time ourselves to deal with the broken pieces....

Sometimes you have to let people go,

not because you don't love them,

but because they hurt you more than you love them....

When I re-read the book,

I saw the resemblance with the time we live in now.

The virus is in our society,

the virus of fear, lack of responsibility,

fear of using our power,

fear of being powerless....

Hurt by 'parents/teachers/lawmaker',

not trusting they see you,

will take care of you.

The virus as nature:

we didn't work with nature,

didn't respect it,

so it 'fights' back.....

Broken pieces everywhere..... 

The only way we can heal broken pieces

is by love....

Not the love for an other,

but the love for one self.....

The love for the child in you,

for the children around you,

We as adults get a great change now:

do we feed the fear,

or do we stay grounded

and go with the flow....

Are we firm, and questioning what they see and hear,

so they can learn to think for themselves,

or do we want to let them think as we think......

For sensitive children/people it is a challenge:

they 'listen' to the feeling,

not always there own feeling,

often emotions from others......

How confused must they be,

how confused are we....

Do we take time to heal our broken pieces

and find peace or are we going on with projecting.....