Monday 30 January 2023

Shadow.....'never walk in anyone's shadow'

At the moment we are, till Febr. 7,
 in 'the post shadow' of Mercury.
From Nov. 23 2022 we were in the 'pre shadow'
and in between it was the retrograde period.

Shadow period: 
we will see our shadow in the outside world,
so we get the opportunity to be our 'real' self again.
With Mercury it is the way we communicate,
especially how we communicate with ourselves.

These periods are not to long,
and sometimes we/I forget 
that we also get long periods 
were we, as society, 
get the opportunity to deal with our shadow
for a longer period.
Especially with the slower planets.

Pluto is one of these planets.
It is in the sign of Capricorn, 
starting in 2008 
till 2024.

What kind of Shadows did we get,
what kind of Shadow did YOU get?
The shadow you find in the opposite sign:
cancer..... an immature Cancer.

Cancer is a water sign,
emotional, intuitive, sentimental,
caring, family.
It is also a cardinal sign:
it takes initiative.
Family is very important.
If it is not nurtured, it will find ways
to survive.....
put a shield around the feelings
and use it's leadership/initiative 
to nurture others
even if it will dim their own light.....

Pluto 'wants' to transform this....
not change it: transform!
Pluto doesn't like cutting corners,
it wants to clean out everything that is not right
and replace it from the inside out.

What happened in your family?
Did old patterns came up that needed to be addressed?
Could you see the mirrors in children?

Did you deal with your emotions?
Did something happen with your parents/brothers/sisters
or in your family?
If so: how does it feel now.....
Are there still strong emotions when you think about it
or can you be grateful and move on....

If you have children you will have 
another mirror to see how it is with your
'hidden' emotions....
Do you want to protect your children and trust
or do you want control and
are a 'curling' parent sometimes.....
Do you allow them to go through their emotions
or do you want to solve those for them....
-an 'excuse' not to deal with your own?-
Can you let them feel that 'mistakes'
are just stepping stones towards themselves....
Can children be themselves with all their emotions,
or.....'do they have to behave'
-meaning: acting in a way that you feel you are 'good'-
Do we have to put labels,
or can a child be a child.....

How do we use the mobile phone?
Did it become your way to socialise?
Do we use it to hide,
not to have to connect in a personal way?

Children/young adults who instead
of learning to make friends in schools,
feel lonely, afraid to connect,
hiding behind their phone......
In France and parts of Australia
children are not allowed to have a phone in class:
after some protest, now the children are happy....

emotions, feeling emotional safe,
protected by 'parents/teachers/institutions/government'
till 'they' can do it by themselves.....

A lot of abuses came to light:
-war in the middle East
-government 'errors'
-unhealed leaders

Did we as society deal with this
did I/you deal with it......

What came to light in your own life?
Did you change it or...transform it....

If not, 
we will be confronted with a different shadow
when Pluto goes into Aquarius....

This shadow will be show us the immature Leo.
Insecurity hidden by loud voices,
or no voice at all...
Leaders who demand,
leaders who misuse social media.
Leaders who are afraid to let their voice be heard,
and don't use social media....

A leader that wants to have his/her own way,
is not a leader......
It is someone who needs control,
control because of insecurity......
This is old energy.....
are we ready to move on?

Where in your life do you still want control,
and do you still believe that you have to proof yourself?

Did we deal with our unhealed emotions since 2008?
Can we be the leader in between other leaders?
Do we realise we all have an unique talent,
one that no one else has 
do we believe we have to be what others want us to be......

This year is a year were we will see both.....
March will be an important month..

When I look back,
I realise how much has happened in my life since 2008:
-old family patterns came up and our family 'split'

-our children moved out and we moved abroad again
 and....came back.

-I was active in a network company and it was an immature
 system...... it helped me and others to heal immature emotions.

-I realised more and more that unhealed emotions can be
 toxic and even lethal....
 Do we listen to each other or do we ask:
 'how are you?' and do we expect 'good'......
 Are we open for a is ok that it is 'not good'.....

-more and more I realised that we are all spiritual beings, 
 and religion can be used to control....
 forgetting that all religion start from the same
 feeling: Love...unconditional love, trust....

-I also realised that we are lucky to have lot's of new souls in this world:
 children who show us our unhealed emotions.
 Showing parents their inner wounds.

- Lot's of parents are prepared to look at their old wounds 
  some are desperate to protecting their wounded child
  preventing their kids to learn to live,
  learn to grow.....
  Wanting to be friends instead of parents....
  they NEED parents......
-I also realise that I don't and can't do it for others.....
 I can choose to heal me.....and 
 that is the way I Really can help others....

The song of Whitney Houston says it all.....
The story of her life as well......

'Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all'

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