it is YOUR way.....
not a competition.
In the last week, I lost my way two times and
it made me a bit insecure:
a city you don't know, no internet,
so I had to let go of control and trust.....
Both times I met nice men
who not only helped me,
but traveled with me.
One -Charly- because he missed his plane,
the other -Will- because of a charity challenge:
walking 1000 miles raising money for diabetics.
'I walk with you, I need the miles
and it is on my way'.
The first time Charly travelled with me
to the place were I met Bas-our son-
and we traveled together to their home.
The second time there was another men
who helped me only.....he wasn't sure,
so half way I asked Will and
he walked with me
till I saw familiar surroundings:
we went our own way....
Asking for help is great AND
if you can do it yourself,
it is good to DO it yourself.
I had great conversations with both men
realised that people like to help others,
you 'just' have to ask and...trust.
I also realised that I still can blame my self
for not doing what I think I am 'supposed' to do:
an old pattern....
A few times I got a sign
within the hour.....
I did the right thing,
that I was reacting from an old/hurt place.
It was 'only' negative self talk/an immature habit.
Do you realise when you do this and.....
are you open for change?
In the coming week
a new soul will come to this earth.
He will be welcomed with open arms.
By his parents, sister, family and friends.
He will be loved and welcomed so much
and even though everyone want to make
his life as easy as possible:
he still will have his challenges.
His first one will be to move from
the comfort zone of his mom's belly.
He has to make his way to this earth,
-like we all did-
in a challenging way.
To be born/a new phase
needs trust and patience...
It is good to remember
that it is also an adventure
and your soul will help you!
How is it with you?
What step did you take lately?
Did you get mirrors lately,
to let go and step into a new adventure?
little steps bring you a long way
and.....there are lots of people
who like to help you on your way,
people like 'Charly and Will'
till you can go on by yourself.....
Knowing you are being loved.