Stand like a lighthouse...

 

The last month of the year.....

A few days ago Saturn and Mercury went direct again,

so now it is time to move forward....

step by step....

Saturn is not that quick only....very determent!

So.....trust and be patient.

Can you choose to be a lighthouse?

Standing tall and shine your light,

so others can use you if they need it,

not because YOU need them......

you are 'just' being the light....

'Being the change you want to see in this world'

YOU are standing tall,

have a solid foundation, with....

'a stuffed animal as mascot'.

This 'mascot' is the anxious part in you,

and you are patient and loving to it.

Hugs it as much and as often as it needs ....

The more attention you give this part,

the more accepting you are,

the brighter your light will shine. 

At the end of the year,

it is a good time to look back.

How was it?

What were your challenges

and how did you deal with them?

How is it when you look at the 5 pillars?

-In Dec 2016 I wrote blogs about this in Dutch,

in Dec. 2019 in English. 

You can find them on blog.benetnasch.net

 if you want to re-read them.-

Did you avoid your weakest pillar

or did you Have to deal with it.

Did you use all the tools you have

-Reiki, tapping, H'o oponopono etc-

or do you follow more courses, read more books

instead of using what you learned in daily life...

How come?!?

Could it be that you are

'addicted to anxiety'? 

I read this book 

and I believe it can be very helpful for everyone.

It is practical and honest......

It is about expectations 

and translating it to the 5 pillars

it can be like:

'my partner should behave like this'

'why am I still not as far as I should be'

'my body needs to look like this'

'they should treat me in a different way,

I don't deserve this!'

'a family needs to come together with Christmas'

'I deserve more money'

For people who do the tapping and feel that 

'it doesn't work'  this could be an eye opener.....

Accepting that it is 'just' ok as it is now......

If you recognize yourself in these sentences,

then it could be time 

to pick up your 'stuffed animal'/talk to you wounded child

and tell it that it is ok........

It is as it is now AND

 'ask it' what it would like to be in the future......

Decide to accept, to feel 

and start talking nicely to yourself....

Emotions.....

they are so strong,

especially those who started in our youth.

They 'helped' us to feel safe

and to survive 

only.....

not always in a way that was good for us.

This book is all about 'accepting'....

the word used at tapping.....

I use 'the navigation' 

or 'the beach ball on the water'....

The ONLY way to move on 

is to feel and to accept......

It sounds so easy, only....to do it is more challenging.

Give yourself the time,

give yourself setbacks

and while you do this: 

SHINE and stand tall,

like a lighthouse.....