The beauty of patience and trust....

 

After weeks of no flowers,

I wasn't sure if it would bloom again:

'most likely end of the season'

and

'I just give it extra 'nutrition'....who knows....'

On my birthday little white buts appeared and now:

it is blooming again :-).

 

For me it showed me to trust,

to be patient and....let go of control.

More and more science is 'proving' 

what is needed so people grow up 

to emotional and physical healthy human beings.

Unconditional love is needed,

only......do we know what this is....?

More and more science show that boundaries are needed,

not to punish, only to protect.

Can we set boundaries if we didn't get unconditional love ourselves?

Are we afraid to set boundaries because it is touching

a part of ourselves that only knows conditional love?

With Pluto in Aquarius and Uranus in Gemini,

communication and community 'need' changing,

changing so we can be unique and 

'bloom in our unique way' AND be part of the community.

-did you see that there were not only white flower,

but also pink one in the picture?'

With Saturn and Neptune both in Aries

we need to find a way to trust AND to set boundaries,

boundaries so we can be who we are meant to be.

Boundaries so we are protected 

and can be our unique self.

Remembering we are Love.

This starts with children,

this starts with your wounded child....

In how many 'story prisons' are you still?

Do you realise it or......are you projecting.......

Are you living from an energy of fear,

or the energy of love....

Venus went retrograde today: 

what do you love,

how do you love.

It is in Scorpio: emotional, hiding,

you need to dig deep.....

You need to trust and feel safe to set boundaries.

Safe.....

because you Know people around you love you unconditionally.

Till the end of November we get the chance

to remember our self-worth

remembering that love and boundaries need each other.

I am sure teenagers are not so happy 

when they can not use social media anymore 

in the same way they did before, only:

now we know more and we need to change,

and forgive ourselves for not knowing what we know now.

Boundaries are needed only......

how are we adults using social media?

Do we have healthy boundaries ourselves?

I am sure that in the past parents/teachers/authority/government

did the best what they knew then,

only.....we know more now.......

Could it be that 'forgiving ourselves for not knowing'

is an important first step?

Do you love yourself enough and Know....

Know you are 'powerful beyond measure'?

Are you choosing to forgive and heal yourself?

Are you choosing to set boundaries for yourself and others?

Are you prepared to go deep,

even though it is scary, 

to find peace and love at the other side?

I wonder what we will see in the world:

Venus is also money.......

Are we obsessed with 'money' and forgetting

that is the same energy as power and love?

Do we need more 'war', more 'fighting'

or do we see the pain of the other and have compassion as well?

Starting with compassion with ourselves/

Compassion AND  still set boundaries....

standing up for what we believe

is worth fighting for.

Respect everyone and stand up 

for those who can not stand up for themselves.....

Respect ourselves and ask help if needed.

Asking help is powerful,

is a sign of self love.....

And remember:

sometimes you need patience and trust,

give 'nutrition' and ....be amazed.

I was and still am when I look at the flowers,

the beauty of patience and trust....