When you go through tough situations in your life,
you need time to grief.
The medical director from New Amsterdam had to grief as well.
He grieved and was running a hospital.
A lot of people were worried about him
and told him 'to grief'.....
However he kept on working.....
Not every one griefs in the same way.....
everyone has to take his or her time,
his or her own time to grieve...
We are all in a time of grieving,
a time of letting go.
Each one in its own way.
How patient are you with yourself?
Most of us could see
that changes were needed in the world.
The only thing was
that we wanted it OUR way.....
Lot's of people made life-cycle plans, mood boards,
and imagined a world they thought was best.
Their imagination worked:
energy that was blocking their/our wishes
needed to go.....
like in New Amsterdam......
Max, the medical director had a vision,
and made chances,
these changes put on the candle of others,
so more changes came
mall practice came up,
mis-use of money,
mis-use of power
also unhealed issues in themselves...
If we want to change
corporate, leaders and managers,
as Max is doing in the hospital,
we also have to realise
that we will have to deal with
change in ourselves as well.
Like Max has to grief accept and trust,
we have to grieve, accept and trust.
Accept that grieving takes time....
takes all the time it needs.
Time to let go of what was
and the thought of how it should/could be
and start trust life again....
How safe is our environment?
Can you say what you want and are you being heard
or are you being punished for it.....
Are people to be hold accountable,
are you holding yourself accountable...
You already see it is society:
the old President of France, Sarcozy
got a jail sentence,
Harry and Megon stepped out of the Royal Family,
letting go of money, gaining rest and love.
In Holland the government blamed parents of fraud,
but this was not the case and they are holding accountable.
How is it in your life?
Are you being heard?
Do you listen to others and do you hear them?
Where do you need healing
so you can live your life fully?
Do you take responsibility?
in the times we are in now,
give each other time to grief,
to let go of what was or
what we thought would be....
I realised I got a feeling that I had
a long time ago
when we came to Holland in the Summer
after a year of living in Saudi Arabia.
I loved it there:
I did the things I could
and accepted the things I couldn't do.
After 8 years something changed.
When I was in Holland:
I wanted to wear short skirts and loved
to go to little cafe's and restaurants.
How come I had this 'all of a sudden'......
I realised that deep down I missed 'freedom',
freedom to choose.....
A few years ago we went back to Saudi
and now it was different....
When Loes visited and we went shopping,
we realised that wearing
a long black dress with embroidery was nice
and......easy: it gave us a lot of freedom.
I realised then,
that I felt more free inside
than I did before...
a new world with rules and with freedom.
With these new rules and freedom
old rules and lack of freedom in people
Being good and doing good for all people around you,
doesn't mean you feel good about yourself
and....that needs to be healed as well.....
Do we need control,
do we need to be in charge
or can we trust
and Know our power,
own our mirrors.
While on a path of healing
we can keep on sharing
our unique gift to the world,
because we all have this....
even if you don't feel it ....yet....
Take all the time you need to grief and to heal,
Lets keep on imaging a world of
happiness and respect for each other.
Lets accept that we don't know how
the path is for the world,
we can choose OUR path,
that our candle is burning,
is spreading light....