Walk your path and be open.....

Sometimes it feels lonely 

if you have to walk your own path,

but if you take time to look around 

and inside yourself,

you realise you are always with yourself.......

and I hope and wish 

you all are happy with yourself..

everyday a little bit more...

Last week we got great news:

our granddaughter would come to visit!

-our son and bonus daughter as well, only....

Zoe is a bit more special now ;-)-

For lots of people this could sound 'normal',

for us however,

it is extra special,

especially because they live in London and...

it is 'corona time'.

We had very special days:

the whole family together,

especially in these times, 

is special and..... 

I realise how grateful I am for all of them.

I also realise 

that each of them walk their own path,

and that it is not always an easy path.

They see challenges instead of problems

and instead of blaming and finding excuses

they deal with what is going on right now.

Whatever is happening, they find ways

to make sure 

they enjoy life.

It is perhaps not an easy path, 

but a path worth living and...

that is most important!

Everyone of us has to go through 'storms',

and it helps 

if you realise they will not stay,

they will end....

In challenging times it is important 

to take time to enjoy life,

find the good things, 

things that make you happy,

so you have energy to deal with the challenges..

I realise that our children walk their own path,

as do there relationships and friends.

They walk and trust,

make choices to live a happy life.

I am grateful and proud of the people they are now

and am curious 

what they will manifest more in their life.

It will be manifesting from love instead of fear:

what a great way to live.

It makes me very optimistic for the future :-)

I realise that I, 

going through my storms,

are helped them by

going trough theirs...

And....

they helped/are helping me going through mine.

They are also mirrors for me....

still are....

and I am grateful for this.

                    

Loes made this picture.

It looked like the stork is 'pushing me'....

Isn't this a nice metaphor

for having children as mirrors.....

From the start of their life,

they 'push' you to look inside yourself,

to deal with your emotions,

so you become strong and grounded,

the person you are meant to be

or 

-if you decide not to look-

you will stay with your -old- emotions

and end up 'in the water'.....

For people who don't have children:

your friends will mirror you in the same way,

your family will 

as will children who will 'visit' you on your path....

We walked in beautiful gardens

on the day of the super moon and lunar eclipse.

That day, 

I saw old emotions coming up in others

and realised they were also a mirror for me....

I realised that later in the day ;-)

I reacted instead of responding towards Jaap.....

and realised it only because I had a talk about it.... 

I wasn't in the now,

I reacted from 'past hurt'......

something no one can change, 

only I can....

I realised that even though I recognized the pattern,

I was not able to 'only' respond...

there was still some old emotion in my reaction ;-),

I wasn't 'neutral'....yet...

Yes, 

'Now is all there is'......

If you are in peace and harmony,

then 'the Now' is without past hurt....

If not,

you Know old hurt is involved

and you 'have to' go to the past 

if you choose peace an harmony in your life....

You have to go to the past to heal 

and to let go.

Can you accept your 'mirrors'

or do you feel offended?

Are you prepared to deal with your fear.....

Fear of not being the person you are 'supposed' to be,

fear of rejection...

Are you prepared to remember you are love

and that the people who are supposed to be with you,

will stay, 

be there or 

are on there way to you....

Are you open to connect Saturn with Uranus.....

BE....

Being you, unique.....

Walk your path and be happy

and by doing so,

give everyone around you permission to do the same?

Do you Believe this is possible?

Are you open for it?

I am.....and 

I hope there will be a 'new virus':

Respect, trust, love, compassion, connection

and happiness, everywhere you go.

Each of us walking their own path

and  connecting when we meet.

Trusting each others knowledge and wisdom,

and use it and share it.

Wouldn't that be a great 'new virus'?