Sunday 2 August 2020

We are all empaths....roots are important.



More and more I realise
that we ALL are empaths....
 At least.....
we start that way
and depending on what kind of element
is most important to you,
you deal with emotions and stress
in a different way.

Fire persons get angry/ run away,
Earth persons are going to help others
Air persons 'park' there emotions
and start to solve problems,
Water persons are desolving.....merging,
forget who they are....

You see this in children
and often they are mis-understood,
and,
if not dealing with this as an adult,
will stay an 'immature empath'....

A child needs guidance and respect
from the adults around them
and...
they can only give it to their children
if they deal with there own 'hurt' inside...


Can we be thankful for our childhood....
thankful.... 
It is only possible
if we choose to
deal with our anger, hurt and old emotions....
If we can, 
than our childhood will be the roots
to be strong and helpful in an authentic way...
YOUR way....

A fire person takes action, creates,
an earth person helps because it have lot's to give,
an air person sees patterns and help others to see them to
and a water person heals others,
just by being there,
and show that we are all one....

This is something 
that takes time....

While you keep going on your path,
you can make changes....
In your job, in society,
with friends, meeting people. 

It could feel like something small....
however.....
it isn't small!!
One smile can help others not to take their lives....
one word can make a difference how people feel,
one hug giving unconditionaly can make people heal....
And if you still think you are to small to make a difference:
think about a mosquito in your bedroom to night...;-)


Start focus on what you want....
...instead of what you don't....

I enjoy life and....
it is not always going as I would like it to go
and....
I KNOW it goes the way it should be.....
If I want it different,
I can decide to choose different....
and if that is not possible,
I accept and trust....
I don't have the big picture...
Suffering, 
is for me 
something in the mind:
expectations....
you 'think' that you know what is best and....
that is not always the case...
at least....not for your soul....

I made the choice to leave Holland
and go for a job abroad,
when I was 23...
Now I know I needed to get away
to find myself....
I was to close to the people around me...

Does everyone have to go abroad to find themselves?
No! Some do, some find other ways....
there is no good or bad way...
You 'just' have to deal with the consequences!

There is one thing we all want....
feeling loved.....

As a child 
that is what we need and want,
and...
we don't think about the consequences...
we shouldn't have to....
As an adult
we have to....
at least if we choose to be ourselves,
to be unique, authentic.
We have to make a choice
to let old patterns go
and
we only can do this
if we KNOW that we ARE love....


We liked to feel loved,
to feel accepted.
To be who we wanted to be....
was often sacrificed... 

Being unique was less important
than being loved...
So we did all we could to be loved
sacrificing being unique...
As an adult we NEED both...


Do you still remember,
or did you forgot
your uniqueness?

Choose to start heal the past,
to remember that you are
unconditionaly loved.....

If you have people who let you believe
you are not good enough 
just the way you are,
you can choose to let them go....
they are NOT right......
and....you are not a child anymore...
Choose love!

How come 
you still attract these people?
What did people 
let you believe about yourself
that you are a magnet to them?
At the moment 
I hear and read a lot about
the corona/covid 19 rules.
Are these the biggest prison we are in right now?
Or is the virus our biggest prison?
I don't think so....

Fear......and hurt...
and it can show in lot's of ways....
and it all comes from the first chakra....
How is your health?
Your relationship with money?

Is your desire to live an abundant life
bigger than your fear?
Are you still reacting 
from a subconscious part,
the part that needs to proof 
that it is loveble?
How are you reacting if there is a stressfull situation?
In a calming, trusting way
or in a way of a child....an immature empath....

Make sure that you live your life....
Focus on you.....
and be grateful at the mirrors society gives us.
And...
as an adult you have to deal with the consequences,
and
like in school,
you get more than one opportunitie;-)








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