Sunday 13 December 2020

'People are fed up........'

 


I read 'People are fed up.....'

and got an image of students.......


Students in their time of exams....

They want to go to the next step of their life,

they want to go to collage or university

but......

they still have to study for exams....

exams, 

that show them, and the university/college 

that they are ready.....

Only....

they want to party, celebrate, have fun

don't want to study......

The only way they can move on

it to do things they don't really like that much....

Show, 'proof' that they are ready...

At that age 
they are supposed to be responsible,
only.....
do you remember yourself at that age?
You thought you were an adult....
but......were you?!?

Did you feel guilty towards your parents,
teachers, society,
because you felt 
they expected more of you?

Did you feel restricted,
because you didn't have the money
to buy the things you wanted
to live the life you wanted?

Saturn can do this.....
you hear the voices of your parents,
your family and of society 
They 'tell' you
what you 'should do'.....
and.....
deep down 
you don't agree with all of their 'rules'.
Deep down 
you feel some of those rules 
are not right for you....
however 
'can you have a good future in a new,
and other way?!?'.....

You are not sure....yet....
Saturn will help you to be determent,
to be patient, 
to set boundaries.

This is challenging.....
At that age you still need your parents,
and.....sometimes parents need you 
to live the life,
they couldn't live themselves.....

Most of the time there are struggles:
teenagers/students want to be free
and parents and teachers worry.....

Mirroring each others pain,
mirroring each others strength...

Young people want to be an adult, 
look like an adult,
but are not an adult yet.....

They don't have to be.....
they got time......
Saturn's cycle is 28/29 years old,
then we are ready to be responsible.....
Did your parent give you this time,
did you give yourself time?

Did you take time to reflect....
or did you only want to go out,
have fun, 
spend time with your peers,
wanting to feel good,
to grow up as quickly as possible .....





Perhaps you were so fed up 
or worried so much 
that at a certain moment 
you wanted to pass the exams
just to get out the situation you were in.
Was it because you were fed up 
with people pushing you,
or because you felt stuck and wanted freedom....

Did you choose consciously 
or did you choose from fear......
Did you choose a study
so you could make lot's of money,
or have job security
or did you choose something you loved.....
Did you give yourself time....?

We are now in a same sort of situation:
are we ready for the next step in society
or are we 'fed up' with the situation we are in now....
but don't like to take the test to show
that we are ready.....

Do we want to take the next step,
without being ready......
or do we realise we are adults now
and have to do what is needed....


We don't have to quit,
we just rest......

Realise that people 
judge and criticize when they are in pain,
we all do this.
Recognize it in yourself
and go on healing....
We get the time the coming years....




For all the people around 26/29 and 56/59
it is time to take the next step in responsibility....
Do you choose for YOU and be part of the community/society.
or do you choose for you and the COMMUNITY/SOCIETY
or do you choose AND for you AND for community/society...




For all of us:
can we take the good of the past with us,
and let go what is outdated.
Can we live our life AND realise we are all ONE.

We only can do this if we set healthy boundaries,

and letting go of people can be part of it.
It can be painful to let people go...
Perhaps it is needed,
is it the only way for us to change....
And.....if we don't.....
we get 'help'.......
sometimes by an illness,
sometimes by a dead
sometimes by loosing a job
sometimes by divorce,
sometimes by letting people go.....


We are almost ready for the next step,
a new society....
we  'just' need some 'test' to show we are ready.....
and in the mean time remember:

Don't be fed up....
just take the action you need to do....
Not what people think you should do,
no.....what is best for you.....

I love this Dutch cartoon:
people are complaining about government for not taking responsibility
making stronger rules.......
as if they couldn't choose themselves to do it....
as if we still need 
'a father, a prime minister, a president' 
to tell us to do the right thing.....

Let's look around 
and do the right time for us,
for our environment,
our neighbourhood
and .....
Be the change we want to see in this world......




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