'People are fed up........'

 

I read 'People are fed up.....'

and got an image of students.......

Students in their time of exams....

They want to go to the next step of their life,

they want to go to collage or university

but......

they still have to study for exams....

exams, 

that show them, and the university/college 

that they are ready.....

Only....

they want to party, celebrate, have fun

don't want to study......

The only way they can move on

it to do things they don't really like that much....

Show, 'proof' that they are ready...

At that age 

they are supposed to be responsible,

only.....

do you remember yourself at that age?

You thought you were an adult....

but......were you?!?

Did you feel guilty towards your parents,

teachers, society,

because you felt 

they expected more of you?

Did you feel restricted,

because you didn't have the money

to buy the things you wanted

to live the life you wanted?

Saturn can do this.....

you hear the voices of your parents,

your family and of society 

They 'tell' you

what you 'should do'.....

and.....

deep down 

you don't agree with all of their 'rules'.

Deep down 

you feel some of those rules 

are not right for you....

however 

'can you have a good future in a new,

and other way?!?'.....

You are not sure....yet....

Saturn will help you to be determent,

to be patient, 

to set boundaries.

This is challenging.....

At that age you still need your parents,

and.....sometimes parents need you 

to live the life,

they couldn't live themselves.....

Most of the time there are struggles:

teenagers/students want to be free

and parents and teachers worry.....

Mirroring each others pain,

mirroring each others strength...

Young people want to be an adult, 

look like an adult,

but are not an adult yet.....

They don't have to be.....

they got time......

Saturn's cycle is 28/29 years old,

then we are ready to be responsible.....

Did your parent give you this time,

did you give yourself time?

Did you take time to reflect....

or did you only want to go out,

have fun, 

spend time with your peers,

wanting to feel good,

to grow up as quickly as possible .....

Perhaps you were so fed up 

or worried so much 

that at a certain moment 

you wanted to pass the exams

just to get out the situation you were in.

Was it because you were fed up 

with people pushing you,

or because you felt stuck and wanted freedom....

Did you choose consciously 

or did you choose from fear......

Did you choose a study

so you could make lot's of money,

or have job security

or did you choose something you loved.....

Did you give yourself time....?

We are now in a same sort of situation:

are we ready for the next step in society

or are we 'fed up' with the situation we are in now....

but don't like to take the test to show

that we are ready.....

Do we want to take the next step,

without being ready......

or do we realise we are adults now

and have to do what is needed....

We don't have to quit,

we just rest......

Realise that people 

judge and criticize when they are in pain,

we all do this.

Recognize it in yourself

and go on healing....

We get the time the coming years....

For all the people around 26/29 and 56/59

it is time to take the next step in responsibility....

Do you choose for YOU and be part of the community/society.

or do you choose for you and the COMMUNITY/SOCIETY

or do you choose AND for you AND for community/society...

For all of us:

can we take the good of the past with us,

and let go what is outdated.

Can we live our life AND realise we are all ONE.

We only can do this if we set healthy boundaries,

and letting go of people can be part of it.

It can be painful to let people go...

Perhaps it is needed,

is it the only way for us to change....

And.....if we don't.....

we get 'help'.......

sometimes by an illness,

sometimes by a dead

sometimes by loosing a job

sometimes by divorce,

sometimes by letting people go.....

We are almost ready for the next step,

a new society....

we  'just' need some 'test' to show we are ready.....

and in the mean time remember:

Don't be fed up....

just take the action you need to do....

Not what people think you should do,

no.....what is best for you.....

I love this Dutch cartoon:

people are complaining about government for not taking responsibility

making stronger rules.......

as if they couldn't choose themselves to do it....

as if we still need 

'a father, a prime minister, a president' 

to tell us to do the right thing.....

Let's look around 

and do the right time for us,

for our environment,

our neighbourhood

and .....

Be the change we want to see in this world......