Can we deal with grief or do we hide it?
The program books are about a society
where adults decided that there is an epidemic....
an epidemic of suicide.....
In this society
adults do anything to stop the pain,
to 'help' teenagers.
They invented a cure: grief management.
Teenagers who are not happy
or experiences hurtful situations
They have a cure for it:
deleting these hurtful memories...
Do we have to 'delete' memory's to have a good life,
or is erasing memory's
'as killing a younger version of you'
and does it prevent you from growing?
Is it possible not to deal with your pain,
your painful memory's
and still be happy?
I don't think so.....
and in these book you see what happens if you do....
What do we see in our society?
Do we deal with pain,
or do we like to 'delete' painful memories
and do we see the pain around us
physical and mental....
In the program books,
adults are afraid,
afraid of seeing the pain in their children.
Are they mirroring their own hurt/pain?!?
Did they forget they have a choice?
Is it as in our society?
Do we want everyone to be happy in an instant?
Are we allowed to feel pain, and hurt,
are we allowed to 'grow'?
What is wrong with taking your time
to deal with challenging situations in your life?
Why should we compare?
Why can we not be 'just the way we are',
and accept challenges and pain/hurt
as stepping stones....
Reading these books I realise one's more
that our memory's are important
that pain from painful memories
will stay until you decide to deal with it.
Suppressing it or delating it
will not work...
It will 'kill you'.....
kill your unique way of being,
being happy and at peace..
As a child you couldn't always be yourself,
you needed others,
and because of that you experienced pain.
Painful memories where born...
Not because people wanted to hurt you.
No, I believe that our Soul needs this
to become whole again.
means dealing with this pain
and being YOU again.
Accepting that you are part of a community
and find a balance to be
AND part of the whole.
Do we realise that everything is energy
and energy will always stay one way
till we transform it.
Pain and hurt can transform into anger and illness,
or, if you add Love,
can transform in respect and healing.
Are we prepared to grow wisdom,
or is the fear of pain bigger....
and do we prefer to delete painful memory's,
instead of starting to heal.
How do we do this in our society?
With the blast in Beirut,
a lot of pain came out
from the people
who remembered the war
when they were kids....
These memory's, this pain couldn't be deleted...
it needed to be dealt with....
The Covid 19 pandemic.
How much pain is there inside of us,
that we like to delete.....
and that is not possible anymore:
memory's come out.....
Do we choose to transform the fear and pain,
can we feel our unique power,
and be part of the healing of society?
People are stronger than they realise
and love will always 'win'.
YOU are so much stronger than you realise....
'Knowledge + love= Wisdom'
Do we choose wisdom or knowledge...
Do we realise we live in a perfect world:
a world in progress,
a world of growing,
a world of difference,
an unique world....
with unique people
all different and all part of each other.
Respecting each other,
feeling the pain and the hurt
and Knowing we can BE there for each other
Know we all have our unique power.
We keep moving.
Our fathers/ governments/leaders
will mirror our own leadership
and our own fear.
Can we respond or do we react,
do we trust that there is a bigger power,
or do we believe 'we are alone in this'
I saw the documentary from David Attenbourogh
'Life at our planet'
Nature is amazing and so powerful.
'We should use wisdom.....
People can not live without nature,
nature can live without people.....'
The Covid 19 virus shows us how powerful nature is,
lets start to remember....
let's communicate about it,
let's find a way that's best for all,
let's start with our selves,
let's grow wisdom....
and accept the 'stepping stones of growing'
Deal with our fears and pain
and add Love to knowledge.