the flowers got too heavy.....
2020 is over....
The new year is beginning,
not ready to bloom....yet..
Wouldn't it be great
that 2021 will be a year
A year of accepting
that there are still parts in ourselves
that are wounded.
Letting go of guilt and shame
and take responsibility.
Realising that setting boundaries
it is easier to change one person at a time
than a whole society.....
so start with YOU :-)
I like to look at different opinions,
and realised that sometimes
I 'reacted' instead of responding.....
that was my 'sign' to look inside.
It touch a part in me that said:
'you are not enough,
you are not following the rules,
you should think and do
what 'we' think and do,
or we will exclude you'....
At the end of the year,
I responded in a group and
it was not the reaction
some people wanted to hear:
'if you don't agree, you should not be in this group'.....
This time I could let it go....
excluding, groups against each other
is not what this new era is about.
Listening to each other,
respecting each other
and if needed
'if you know better, you do better'.
It is and/and, not or/or anymore....
We are growing from an immature ego,
to a healthy ego.
Have an amazing start of 2021.